Friday, January 18, 2013

"Loving Consideration for all" - a reflection on Matthew 5:43-48



As the ‘love your neighbour’ part was originally delivered to Israel, it may have come to be accepted only nationalistically and exclusively. Then you combine this with a few other “Old Testament” scriptures which seem to have a negative view of groups or nations outside Israel, and you can see how common and popular beliefs may have developed in this unfortunate direction … ‘hate your enemy’. This would actually be convenient for those who heard “love your neighbour – but then thought ‘that can’t mean …’. Also, pieces of cultural and personal convenience often insinuate their way into theological beliefs. Happily, Jesus would set all this straight!

What does God really think about the limits of love? There are no limits! “Love your enemies”, yes even your enemies, and also, “pray for those who persecute you”. This covers both our broadest and general enemies (as we see it), as well as our very personal enemies – those who have gone out of their way to persecute us. Here, Jesus clearly extends the command to love neighbour to everyone, in imitation of God’s indiscriminate love and life-giving mercy to all (both “good” and “bad”).

The grace of God has a place for all. This is not to say that all receive salvation, just that all receive the offer of salvation and relationship with God. The benevolence of God, as exampled in the sun and the rain, is provided for all people. As God does not discriminate, God ‘s disciples are likewise called to not discriminate … in choosing the objects of their love (J H Yoder). If we are to truly imitate God … to resemble and reflect God’s character, then this is how we are to do it … “love our enemies”!

Even those who are generally viewed as deficient in character by the society of Jesus’ time – “tax collectors” and “Gentiles” – even these are able to love those who love them, and love their immediate families. To imitate God though requires a much higher ethic than just this. To deny this, denies our relationship with God – refer to verse 45 as it follows verse 44: “Love your enemies … so that you may be children of your Father in heaven”. By definition, God’s children will love their enemies.

And this will not just be an emotional or intellectual “love”, this is “agape love” – an active practical transforming “love”. This “love” will tend towards making our “enemies” and “persecutors” our friends. This connects with what Jesus said just a bit earlier (in 5:9): “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they [these ones] will be called children of God”. It is in the act of loving enemies and making peace that we truly become “children” (or ‘reflections’) of God.

To practice “agape love” is about sincerely seeking the best for others – considering their welfare and well-being. It is also about looking for the good in other people (even when you have to look long and deep), and seeking to bring this good out into the open. “Agape love” also facilitates the way towards (mutual) forgiveness. This is quite the opposite of bitterness or vengeance! William Barclay said that, “agape is the power to love those who we do not like and who do not like us”. “Agape love” is not dissuaded by the unworthiness of its object, for it sees the value of each person to God. Therefore practicing “agape love” cannot be just a human thing (for it is so difficult at times), but it is actually a ‘God thing’ … the source from where such “agape love” originates. To return ‘good’ for ‘good’ is human, but to return ‘good’ for ‘evil’ is divine (A Plummer quoted by D A Carson).

Imagine now … loving your enemies (with “agape love”). Give it a try! Imagine praying for and forgiving your persecutors!

For this (“loving our enemies”) is what we have to bring to the commemoration of the Lord’s supper … if we are to be fair dinkum! After all, Jesus died to make his enemies into his friends! Romans 5:8 says: “But God proves his love for us in that while we were still sinners Christ died for us”. Yes, Jesus died to turn his enemies into his friends!! Jesus was praying prayers of forgiveness from the cross for those who had put him there; and even the cruel torture he was enduring could not silence this prayer (John Stott). Jesus died to make his enemies into friends!!! Not only this, but Jesus died and rose again, so that we would be able to do the same – turn enemies into friends!

This is the context in which we read the (often troubling) verse: “Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect”. As humans we will never be “perfect” as such … without error; but what this verse is suggesting (really commanding), is that we align ourselves and our character and our attitudes with God’s character and attitudes (and certainly NOT stand in the way of these). And the radical nature of God’s love is seen most clearly through love toward enemies. We do this in a settled and consistent way, for the opposite of what Jesus means here [by being “perfect”] is having divided loyalties (J D Kingsbury). God’s own attributes, that we adopt, then stand in stark contrast to many conventional, yet ill-founded, attitudes.

Being “perfect” or “holy” means being wholly “set apart” for God’s purposes. Participating in communion is often seen as a place of recommitment and acknowledging the mercy and forgiveness we have received. During communion, we take the opportunity of confessing our need of God and seek to be restored to wholeness. This wholeness (or completeness or harmony) is what is meant in verse 48 by being “perfect”. And thus, along with many other matters dealt with by Jesus in his “sermon on the mount”, our ‘wholeness’ depends upon being able to love our enemies and forgive those who have hurt us. In this way, verse 48 could be loosely translated: ‘Live this out, therefore, and you will approach the true heart of God’.

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