Friday, September 20, 2013

Light, darkness & church abuse - a discussion (Matthew 6:22-23)

Matthew 6:23b says, If then the light in you is darkness, how great is the darkness.

The context suggests the meaning of this. Just look at the passages surrounding this verse. Those who purport to follow Jesus but put more value on “treasures of earth” rather than “treasures of heaven” are in great darkness. Those who seek to continue to waver between two “masters” are in great darkness. Those who unduly worry about peripheral matters (rather than striving first for the kingdom of God) are in great darkness. Those who judge others (without a proper consideration of their own state) are in great darkness. If we fix our eyes on the wrong things and thus allow our vision to become unhealthy we finish up in darkness.

Looking at this another way, and reflecting on the “eye” and the functioning of the “eye” as part of our perceptions … “the view we take of [other] people depends on the kind of eye we have” (Barclay). There are certain things that can distort our vision, blind our eyes, and thus make us live in darkness, e.g. prejudice or hate, conceit or self-centredness, and jealousy or greed. What is then neglected is compassion, generosity and truth. There is a devaluing of other people to the extent that they can either be ignored, or worse, become commodities to be used for one’s own ends. This is the path toward darkness, where there is less and less light to show the way back to Jesus!

Now this all seems an overly harsh assessment; or is it? Consider some of the deeds done by those who were supposedly servants of the living God. Should not they have thought more about these passages. Did they take their propensity to sin far too easily? Did others fail in not pointing out their wrongdoing or not taking enough action to protect the innocent?? Have some been caught in the great hypocrisy of preaching moral standards while personally ignoring them. Patrick Parkinson has said, “… if people preach moral standards and they don’t live by them, they are the worst of sinners in my personal view”.

There is probably an even more clear statement about the seriousness of these matters contained in Matthew 18:1-9. Verses 6-7 read as follows. If any of you put a stumbling block before one of these little ones who believe in me, it would be better for you if a great millstone were fastened around your neck and you were drowned in the depth of the sea. 7 Woe to the world because of stumbling blocks! Occasions for stumbling are bound to come, but woe to the one by whom the stumbling block comes!

The world, and many of its citizens, are deeply affected by the abuse inflicted by those who have allowed darkness to reign in the lives. When such abuse has occurred through the hand of those who are part of the church, no wonder the church faces criticism and condemnation, and comes to bear shame. So how do we rally from this? How do we bring glory to God and lift up the name of Jesus in the midst of a somewhat sorry situation?

Having watched the episode on “church abuse” from the Towards Belief DVD series, we should think about the following questions and points:

(1)    What is the appropriate response of churches who know that abuse has occurred in their midst? To the victims? To the offenders?

In many instances the church has failed to support victims, and has not had appropriate measures in place to receive and deal with complaints. In the past there was a reluctance to report matters to the proper authorities, and, in some cases, a sense of trying to protect the institution, rather than trying to provide help for victims. The church must adopt a zero tolerance to abuse within its number. Telling the truth and seeking justice for victims is vital. This is the path toward regaining the community’s trust.

Regarding offenders – while Christians believe that God’s grace reaches out to even the most flawed people, forgiveness relies on true repentance i.e. honestly facing up to wrongdoing, telling the truth, making changes, and efforts toward making reparation.

(2)    When someone says to you, “I could never accept Christianity because of the cases of abuse in the church”, how can you respond?

Ghandi once said, “I like your Christ. I do not like your Christians; they are so unlike your Christ”.

(3)    One sufferer of abuse interviewed said that the abuse he suffered at the hands of a leading pastor has not changed his view of God, his view of Jesus, or his sense of his need for God. How can we explain that?


He said the following: “What I can say is, I never equated that pastor’s actions with Jesus Christ and I never equated it with the church. And so, while I can understand why people would be angry at the church and angry at God for these things that happened to me or to anybody else, this was not what God wanted. This was an abomination. It’s never changed my understanding of the fact that I need God, that this world needs God.”

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