Life continually has its challenges,
and sometimes we struggle for answers to deal with certain of these challenges
or decisions to be made. As individuals we often desperately need the input of
others into our lives, as we travel down somewhat unfamiliar roads. Paul writes
in 1 Thessalonians 5:11 … Therefore encourage one another and build up each
other, as indeed you are doing.
To “encourage” is to give courage to!
To “encourage” is to bring out and develop the good capacities that lie deep
within a person. Then, on occasions where people feel jaded or stale or bored
with their jobs or lives (or even in their roles at church), the role of the
encourager is to ‘stimulate’ new interest, enthusiasm and growth. Dr Allen
Meyer speaks of “encouragement” as being the “oxygen that fuels learning”.
How do we build up each other? This
seems to suggest much more than just being courteous and sociable, and more
than just supporting someone out of a ‘hole’. ‘Building up others’ suggests
that we work to lift people up higher … right up into their [God-given]
potential. We sense their need, draw alongside them, hear their pain, enter
their suffering, creatively guide them forward – thus building their gifts and
capacities.
Later, 1 Thessalonians 5:14 seems to
address a very real church situation: And we urge you, beloved, to admonish
the idlers, encourage the faint hearted, help the weak, be patient with all of
them. This does bring a wider application of the notion of ‘building people
up’ than we may have had originally. There are those who may be starting from a
very low base … those described as “faint-hearted” – lacking courage and
committed decision-making … and those described as “weak” – which probably
suggests those that are particularly vulnerable or lack moral fibre. These ones
could also have suffered badly and been discouraged in the past (through
various bereavements, hurts and abuses).
Such people are to be consoled,
supported, guided and helped … with all patience! With all patience … because
such ones may not be easily able to recognise encouragement, having not
experienced much in the past. They may not be highly developed in Bible
knowledge, nor have had many victories over temptation, and have found
themselves easily swayed in the past. Yet they remain precious people to be
nurtured. In a way, we share, at least for a period, a measure of our strength
to compensate for their weakness or lack of courage.
In this ways knees previously lacking
firm foundations can become unbuckled, soft touches of comfort untwists the
stomach, and offers of experience, learning and [Divine] wisdom can see
shoulders no longer hunched. In the process of being encouraged and built up,
people can again access their value to God and affirm their unique calling,
being more prepared to try new things. At the same time, their faith seems to
be strengthening, trust issues are being resolved, confidence grows,
relationships become easier, and they are generally becoming more spiritually
enriched.
Then there are those described as
“idlers”, where we see a whole different style of encouragement mentioned.
These “idlers” are likely to have been favoured by many advantages, including
good teaching and pastoral care – yet ‘sit’ on these as if they were only for
personal advantage. The type of encouragement required here is termed
“admonishment” – i.e. setting such people straight, giving them a reality
check, even a calling to account; giving them a good dose of Ephesians 2:10. Of
course, any such ‘admonishment styled encouragement’ toward “idlers” must be
approached both prayerfully and humbly, lest anyone become embittered.
Often people think that the church’s
mission is to deal with all the various individual needs that crop up (most
particularly their own); but this is such a small part of the church’s true
mission of bringing God’s grace to the whole world. Often people’s desires and
needs can only truly be addressed and resolved as they get out of themselves
and become fully involved with God’s bigger picture. People grow as they
actively experience community; as experiments succeed, as people mix like never
before, as people together make a difference. And working hand-in-hand toward
mutual goals cements community together.
This then takes us to Hebrews 10:24-25
… And let us consider how to provoke one another to love and good deeds, not
neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one
another, and all the more as you see the Day approaching. The last phrase
here suggests some urgency and focus! Jesus-followers of the first century
believed that Jesus would return quite soon, so therefore we should feel no
less urgency.
Then in the first phrase we have that
word “provoke”, which often has a negative connotation, but here is clearly
directed at a positive outcome. This word could also be translated ‘stimulate,
spur, urge, stir’; but with elements of meaning in the original Greek word
“paroxysmos” like ‘irritate’ and ‘incite’, “provoke” seems stronger and more
appropriate than these. To “provoke” is to act in a way that causes a reaction
in others! Leading by personal example, if you like.
There is also the sense here of
‘encouraging in love’, so any “provocative” type behaviour must be done
for the right reasons with a good Godly outcome in mind. As “love and good
deeds” don’t just happen, and have to be worked at, what about the translation
“awaken one another …”, with the idea that “love and good deeds” lie deep
within us yet need to be actively drawn out.
But why do you think the concept of
“meeting together” and encouragement are linked together here???
Of course the sort of meetings being
thought of here is different to how we might think today (primarily in terms of
formal worship services). The first century church more met in homes and
spontaneously gathered at various times of the week for prayer, study and
shared hospitality.
This seems to be about our desires and
level of determination to be together … the thought of not missing out on being
together (as a local expression of being family of God). This all has to be
factored in with responsibilities to family, neighbours, friends and work.
Quite complicated sometimes! Yet there seems to be a question here of where our
heart is.
Ø We are being reminded that the
practice of encouragement is impossible from any distance!!
Ø Also there is here the notion that the
dynamic of mutual encouragement is best, where we lean on each other mutually
according to our particular and varying weaknesses and strengths!!!
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